"When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.” (John 2: 3-5)
Some say that the timing of the Lord had not come yet to perform a miracle but that St Mary had the authority to change God's timing so the Lord made the miracle even though he didn't want to.
This interpretation is a bit flaw, because the Lord Jesus responded negatively to St. Mary's request, but she did not care for his will and orders the servants to go to him and do whatever He tells them.
This interpretation is a bit dangerous and shameful because it shows the Lord as weak person who has no authority to keep or fulfill his word. It also shows St. Mary as the higher authority to which the Lord submits even by breaking his own word.
We need to understand the scriptures. The expression " My hour has not come yet" doesn't mean that his hour to do the miracle has not come yet. The Lord came to perform the miracle and this is obvious in verse 11 from the same chapter :"This, the first of his signs, Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and manifested his glory. And his disciples believed in him."
What the Lord wanted is to set things straight right from the beginning, no one was to interfere in his Godly matters and lead him to the cross before the right time.
Below you will find some of the biblical verses which confirm that the meaning of the expression "My hour has not come yet" is related to his death. The Lord did not allow to anyone to lead him to death before the scheduled time. Things happened according to his own way and timing to redeem humankind.
John 7:30 : "So they were seeking to arrest him, but no one laid a hand on him, because his hour had not yet come".
John 8:20 : "These words he spoke in the treasury, as he taught in the temple; but no one arrested him, because his hour had not yet come."
John 13:1 : "Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that his hour had come to depart out of this world to the Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end."